fake friends..we'v all seen those bitches

the other day i was at lunch with my friends and a couple of acquaintances. i was complaining about how my travel plans had to be repeatedly changed because of my dad's commitment issues-he was committed to his work and not his family. all of a sudden one of my girlfriends,a miss so-and-so present there said "you crib a lot. everyone has issues in their life just deal with it". that shocked me beyond belief. trust me i had not seen this coming. i asked her if i had previously ever "cribbed" but i had not..its just i was tired of my dad continuously ditching me and i wanted someone to sympathize and i thought maybe friends were the people to go to! but instead this was what i got? and then another girl joined in saying "me and so-and-so were just discussing this yesterday about how you crib about everything so much! you just have to let it go!!" and then miss, so-and-so joins in saying "yeah man..everybody has issues..just suck up to it..we all have problems but we don't keep saying 'oh my life sucks and i hate my life',,just move on!" i asked them to please go ahead and state what their issues in life were because i would gladly listen to those..but instead all they said was " we cant say them here now".because fact of the matter was they never had any issues. sure they had normal problems like hating classes and living with curfew times but they also had the side of life where they were dating and going out shopping every week and going to the movies and disco's with their parents permission!!. the only issue in their life- they had fights with their respective boyfriends and oh my god isn't that the worst thing! that's sarcasm btw! aggh!! how can someone be so shallow and selfish and ditch your friend ? or maybe they were just trying to impress the new guy at the table by showing him how they NEVER complain about life!? well i walked away from the conversation only to get a "im so sorry i should have just listened to you i know how sometimes we just need someone to listen to our problems and not say anything" text from miss so-and-so. sure i went back to them after that. but i'm never going to talk about my "issues" with them anymore and they're never going to be my friends. from then on they have only been "company" that i keep to get through college hours and avoid social awkwardness. oh and i  just listen to them when day in and day out they crib about their boyfriends,crying during class hours, breaking up-and back withing a span of 60 minutes and more crap stuff related to their love life but i don't say anything. i just listen and give my opinions and suggestions when asked for. because i want to show them what friends are supposed to be like. and no..this doesn't make me some amazing person..now im just more aware of what people can really be like and how i am supposed to be with them!!